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true friend..?!?!

Posted by Yesha - 25/05/08 at 10:05:23 pm

How can we find true friendship in this temporary world? We all have friends.Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend.But when can we call a friend a true friend?and when can our friends takes us their true friend? I have been through a lot of experiences and problems.In times of these you will know who are your true friends..

Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you only have money?
{so that she won’t spend any single cent}
Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you have cute guy friends?
{so that she can be with those guys and displays them as her boyfriend publicly}
Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you reviewed a lot for your exams the next day?
{so that she can copy your answers and don’t waste time reviewing by herself}
Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you have cute stuffs and expensive stuffs?
{so that she can have it when you don’t like the stuffs anymore}
Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you have a nice car?
{so that she can have a free ride}

But when you need her, where is she????????

I’ve experienced some of the said situation above and some are my friends’ experiences.
But i did forgive that “friend” already..

True friendship involves relationship. Those mutual attributes we mentioned above become the foundation in which recognition transpires into relationship. Many people say, “Oh, he’s a good friend of mine,” yet they never take time to spend time with that “good friend.” Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other’s growth.

Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. We need to be able to share our deepest secrets with someone, without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! Failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry. Faithfulness and loyalty are key to true friendship. Without them, we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, no turning away.

True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops. We love our friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends.

I know someone who can be a true friend to you,to us and that’s God.In times when you feel that nobody wants to listen to you,close your eyes and talk to him with your whole heart and you will feel something in your heart,giving you the best comfort and hug that you have never experience in your entire life and you will end up having tears of joy and feeling ok..

Have you experienced that already?

Jyaaaaaaaaaaaaa…this is going to be long..blog hop time..
Thanks for visiting me.luv yah.luv yah

xoxo,

Yesha

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shucks. nakakainspire naman ang post na ito. its about friendship. i had problems with my friends this year. =(

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Comment by pinkcheeksjiz — May 26, 2008 #
everybody has that kind of friend & whether we like it or not, we also become that kind of a “badfriend” . But we really cannot help it, we’re human & therefore, we tend to be untrue & unfaithful. But yes, only God is who i can call a true friend. When u feel like nobody understands you, think again!God is always there for you.

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Comment by aika — May 26, 2008 #
Honestly, no, I have never had that kind of friend. Ako kasi, I don’t mind who my friends are because practically I always make myself available to my friends no matter what the situation and when I have a problem, my friends are always there, too.

With me and my “bestfriend” *wink wink* we share all of our secrets but we both know that we should never share our deepest secrets kasi those are really meant to be kept to ourselves. Anyway, I agree that God is truly the bestest of the best friend that we could ever have Yay! xD

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Comment by Yanka — May 26, 2008 #
God’s a really good listener. And He’s the only friend you could trust with all your heart

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Comment by rachelle — May 26, 2008 #
I’m lucky not to have such experiences Ate. I am lucky enough to say to the whole world that I am blessed with good friends that won’t use me just for something or would take advantage of me.

Those last few paragraphs were really inspiring. All I can say is, VERY WELL SAID.

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Comment by April — May 26, 2008 #
very nice blog. i really don’t like those people who just call you a friend when they need/want something from you. i’m lucky i have true friends online and offline. i miss you too yesha-san! too bad i can’t send you a direct message in twitter coz you’re not one of my followers kasi eh. hehehe. mwahh!

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Comment by Mikyu — May 26, 2008 #
i like this post ate! good job. yeah, i’ve had 1, pero nagkalayo din kaya wa wenta. Ngayon, ayaw ko na humanap ng mgging kplit nya, super hirap na magtiwala..

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Comment by Khayte — May 26, 2008 #
i love this good post! yah.i already experienced some of them..this is really inspiring! hehe..
muwahugs!

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Comment by Christie Gayle — May 26, 2008 #
Yay! Buti na lang, di ko pa na-eexperience yung ganon. Kung hindi, kung hindi.. hindi ko pa marerealize na na may mga ganong klaseng kaibigan.

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Comment by Casey — May 26, 2008 #
yay…, been there, done that…, i have a friend like that…she really exhausts me..

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Comment by krisel — May 26, 2008 #
yep. I already experienced those especially the situation when I reviewed a lot for exams/quizzes then she’ll just copy my answers?!?! wtf..
yes..it really is, take a long time to know if this person is a true friend or a “fake” one. they’re just being friend with you for the sake of they’re fantasies. ohh.. I remembered my classmate way back in elementary,,

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Comment by abby — May 26, 2008 #
friend w/ money!? not so cool.. duh?? that’s not even called as a friend.. geez.

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Comment by anne — May 26, 2008 #
I have a friend, who is always what you’ve said above. Haha.

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Comment by Lissie — May 26, 2008 #
buti nlng ung bestfriend q super bait and understndng tlga. pro ung mom lgng cnsbi na wag mxdng mgttwla sa frnds mo kc pg ngaway kau pde xng mgng worst enemy mo. well tama nga nmn un. mas tamng magtiwala sa pamilya mo and kay GOD :}

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Comment by angel — May 26, 2008 #
OMG nice enrty sis. Yahright.
We all have a bunch of friends but only few of them are real. I do exprienced some of those stuation above just like u know when u have such money, they’re around, arrgg!! and of course they’re w/ u when the exams is c0ming.grr! really that wuz true.

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Comment by Jhoice — May 26, 2008 #
I think kasama na ang post na toh sa mga bestest posts I’ve ever read. All about friendship.. I have lots of friends.. as in madami talaga akong friends.. Pero as what nakalagay sa post mo.. God is my true friend

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Comment by aneh — May 26, 2008 #
ur post made me cry~

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Comment by Inna — May 26, 2008 #
naku tama ka sis.. may ibang tao ganyan talaga.. kung yung mga oras na kailangan ka nila, anjan ko talaga pero pag kaw naman nangangailangan ng kaibigan, di mo na sila makikita.. tsk.. what a sad reality…=(

sige ingatz ka lagi sis!
-xoxo-

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Comment by Babyjen — May 27, 2008 #
very well said hunn..
i know that feeling..so sad

in the end you will realize who is the real one..
luv you girl.

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Comment by Yuki — May 27, 2008 #
Thats so inspiring sis..True friendship i had experience those and it really makes me grrr..

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Comment by Mariel — May 27, 2008 #
yeah! I already experienced some of those… it really hurts…hmmm… but thanks for this post Ate Yesh… i appreciate it. mwah!

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Comment by La Reyn — May 27, 2008 #
very well written! i love the way you expressed your thoughts. i caught wht you meant in an instant. i actually experience those things. it’s very unpleasant, but the time’ll come she’ll regret it. hehe..good thing we’re not rude, right? haha..or else i have killed her already. kidding.

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Comment by chiui — May 27, 2008 #
What a great post sis. yeah there are many people out there which call themselves as friends but not with their actions. God is the only one who can really help us and will never let us down.

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Comment by Alyssa — May 27, 2008 #
yesha nee chan..are wa hontou desu ne..sa mga pnahon ngayon,it’s hard to teLL whether a friend is being true to you or not..it’s very inspiring ..Loveyah!..

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Comment by kei — May 28, 2008 #
Hirap talaga malaman kung totoong friend ba sya or hindi.. Sa paglipas lang siguro ng oras tsaka lang malalaman kung true friend ba sya or hindi.. Nagkaprob din ako sa isang friend ko last time eh. Lagi kasi syang nagsisinungaling sa amin and laging gumagawa ng mga storya na hindi naman totoo..

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Comment by Hershey — May 28, 2008 #
I thought that I had 2 best girl friends. But since I live here, I never see them. Maybe once in 2-3 months!! They never ask me to go shop or anything. When they are here they only talk about “going out” and what they have done, that they drank to much.

Whenever I wanna share a problem with them, they will not listen.

I don’t know yet what to do with these feelings because I feel it this way for a short time. And it’s a little hard. Feels like the only one I can trust (besides family) is my boyfriend…

Other then that, I believe in God. x3

Great post hun.

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Comment by Amanda — May 28, 2008 #
i haven’t experienced anything like that with a friend. perhaps, i’m quite fussy in choosing a friend. hehe. it’s a nice post, and inspiring as well.

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Comment by Hachi — May 28, 2008 #
Well said. I’ve experienced that before.. yung sakin naman.. parang last resort lang nya ako.. if everything goes bad with her friend (which is btw, our barkada din) sakin sya pupunta para sumama lang.. for lunch.. then when everything’s okay between her and our friend.. hindi na ako kakausapin. ARGH!

I guess my true friend is my mom. Yep!

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Comment by Karen — May 28, 2008 #