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  What will you do?

Posted by Yesha - 18/11/11 at 09:11:50 pm

If you caught your partner in life having an affair? ? ?

We just watched a film that is related to this situation. In my opinion, it is really hard to face this problem especially if you are doing nothing wrong.

Well, they say there’s a lot of “nice” women who just accept this kind of situation however there are also women who cannot bear men who do this. Some ends up separating and the like but if you are in the same situation, what will you do? How far can you go?

  Can your love be saved?

Posted by Yesha - 18/02/11 at 09:02:07 pm

You are in a relationship right now and it is not working  smoothly.

Undecided? Can’t do a move?

Well sweeties, read on and decide your next move

NOW!!!

BREAK

If any of these seem like your relationship, taking three weeks apart to rethink things could help a lot.

  • YOU FIGHT over everything. step back to see where your anger is coming from. If you feel just as stressed when you’re apart, he isn’t the problem.
  • HE FLIRTS with your friends. It might be a sign he isn’t ready to commit. You’ll know for sure if he quickly hooks up while you’re on hold. If he doesn’t and he’s also willing to change, give him a chance.
  • YOU BARELY TALK when you hang out. You may have grown apart. or you might just be bored. Take some time off to pursue your own interests. You’ll have more to say if you both have more stuff going on in your lives outside the relationship.
  • HE DOESN’T HAVE THE TIME to see you. If he starts cancelling on you, explain you know he has a lot to handle now, but you want to be a priority in his life. not an afterthought. Give him time alone to figure out how you fit in, then re evaluate.

It’s scary, but a break can help you see if you belong together or if you’re just staying together out of habit.

BREAK UP

If your guy does even one of these things, it’s a deal -breaker. Don’t drag it out – WALK AWAY.

  • HE MAKES FUN of your religion, morals or family. It’s fine to disagree but if he can’t respect what’s important to you, it will never work out.
  • HE CHEATS on you. Being unfaithful is not only a betrayal of your trust, but it’s also a sign that he’s not feeling fulfilled in your relationship. This isn’t healthy for either of you, so move on now.
  • HE DEMANDS SEX even after you’ve said you don’t want to go that far, When a guy threatens to leave you if you don’t put out, save him the trouble – you have such different definitions of love and respect that the relationship can’t work
  • HE HITS YOU or threaten physical violence. There’s no reason good enough to justify hurting you or anyone else, for that matter. If he even talks about it, he may have serious anger issues, and staying with him could put your life in danger.

Breaking up is awful but staying in a bad relationship is worse because it holds you back.

Hope you find these very helpful ^ ^

1. Are you in a relationship now?

2. How will you rate it? (1 as good relationship and 10 as you are on a bad relationship)

  Make his parents love you!

Posted by Yesha - 31/01/11 at 03:01:14 pm

Guys do listen to their parents opinions- so if they adore you, he’ll be even more into you.

1. Start formally – Always call his parents Mr.and Mrs.when you’re first introduced. Being formal shows respect and starts off the relationship on the right foot. if a guy’s parents ask you to call them by their first names or call them mom and dad once you get married,do it! Staying with Mr. and Mrs or even tita and tito when they don’t want you to will make them feel uncomfortable around you
2.Dress the part – When you’re around his family, make sure you pulled together, and if anything, err on the side of being conservative.
3. Bring a gift – It is impressive! Once you make effort and take time to make something to share will surely won major points with his parents.
4. Ask about them –  Break the ice with interested questions- like if you love his mom’s earrings, tell her so and ask where they’re come from, or ask his dad about a photo hangingin their home. Initiating the conversations early on not only helps you get to know each other, but it also shows a guy’s parents that you’re putting in some effort becasue you want to get to know them.
5. Stay friendly – After the first meeting, you have to keep working on the relationship. When you go over to their house, resist the urge to just shout “hey!” and then run off to hang out with your guy. Spend a few minutes asking his parents how their doing and telling them what you’ve been up to lately.
The more they know about you, the more they will trust and love you. And believe me, so will he.

  What guys shouldn’t do in a relationship

Posted by Yesha - 15/10/10 at 06:10:07 pm

So this is what I think guys shouldn’t do. I wanted to blog bout this because some couples have rough times. & here are some things that guys shouldn’t do:
1. Never bring up anything about your last relationship. Why? Because that shows that your not over them.
2. Don’t be messed up and not supportive.
3. NEVER bail on a date.
4. Pissing your girl off when she’s PMSing. I know it’s pretty bad but just bare with her. It’s just 5 days to a week.
5. Saying negative comments about her. An example: “Babe your fat.” Now that’s OFFENSIVE.
6. Making her feel that she’s not loved or cared for. Guys be loving to your lady. If you love then you should show how you feel about her.
7. Don’t take things like it’s a joke. If yur lady is trying to be serious then you SHOULD too.
8. Dont ever LIE to her.
9. Don’t ignore her.
10. & Respect her.
Well thats pretty much it. (:

  Dating smarts you must have

Posted by Yesha - 05/09/10 at 06:09:29 pm
There’s so much potential for disaster, they should call it playing the minefield. That’s why this first date guide is your key…
  • First rule: Chemistry trumps all. Even if he talked too much about his car or had bits of T-bone steak stuck between his teeth the whole time, if his kiss made you melt, he gets second date
  • *On the flip side, i don’t care if he’s the hottest, richest, funniest, Orlando Bloomiest man ever. If smooching him gives you creeps, cut your losses.
  • Any time your friend offers to set you up, make sure to ask her what she thinks you have in common with the guy – besides the fact that you’re both single.
HEADS UP: If he spends even part of the evening responding to work-related texts from his phone, he probably wouldn’t make the most attentive boyfriend.
*Then again, if you spend even part of your evening on office calls, don’t expect him to call for a second date.
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