true friend..?!?!

Posted by Yesha - 25/05/08 at 10:05:23 pm

How can we find true friendship in this temporary world? We all have friends.Everyone wants a true friend, and many of us believe that we have a friend who can be called a true friend.But when can we call a friend a true friend?and when can our friends takes us their true friend? I have been through a lot of experiences and problems.In times of these you will know who are your true friends..

Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you only have money?
{so that she won’t spend any single cent}
Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you have cute guy friends?
{so that she can be with those guys and displays them as her boyfriend publicly}
Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you reviewed a lot for your exams the next day?
{so that she can copy your answers and don’t waste time reviewing by herself}
Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you have cute stuffs and expensive stuffs?
{so that she can have it when you don’t like the stuffs anymore}
Have you experienced having a friend who is always there when you have a nice car?
{so that she can have a free ride}

But when you need her, where is she????????

I’ve experienced some of the said situation above and some are my friends’ experiences.
But i did forgive that “friend” already..

True friendship involves relationship. Those mutual attributes we mentioned above become the foundation in which recognition transpires into relationship. Many people say, “Oh, he’s a good friend of mine,” yet they never take time to spend time with that “good friend.” Friendship takes time: time to get to know each other, time to build shared memories, time to invest in each other’s growth.

Trust is essential to true friendship. We all need someone with whom we can share our lives, thoughts, feelings, and frustrations. We need to be able to share our deepest secrets with someone, without worrying that those secrets will end up on the Internet the next day! Failing to be trustworthy with those intimate secrets can destroy a friendship in a hurry. Faithfulness and loyalty are key to true friendship. Without them, we often feel betrayed, left out, and lonely. In true friendship, there is no backbiting, no negative thoughts, no turning away.

True friendship requires certain accountability factors. Real friends encourage one another and forgive one another where there has been an offense. Genuine friendship supports during times of struggle. Friends are dependable. In true friendship, unconditional love develops. We love our friends no matter what and we always want the best for our friends.

I know someone who can be a true friend to you,to us and that’s God.In times when you feel that nobody wants to listen to you,close your eyes and talk to him with your whole heart and you will feel something in your heart,giving you the best comfort and hug that you have never experience in your entire life and you will end up having tears of joy and feeling ok..

Have you experienced that already?

Jyaaaaaaaaaaaaa…this is going to be long..blog hop time..
Thanks for visiting me.luv yah.luv yah

xoxo,

Yesha

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