scars….

Posted by Yesha - 14/05/08 at 10:05:38 pm

hello…o genki desu ka ??? gosh!!! I don’t have net connections the past days,i am missing so much…I was so bored ,i had to spend some bucks for shopping..I’m having a headache too since yesterday..

Have you ever cut yourself? What is your opinion on slicing your own skin? More and more teenagers are resorting to cutting themselves…would you ever? I have some information on cutting…

What is cutting?

Injuring yourself on purpose by making scratches or cuts on your body with a sharp object — enough to break the skin and make it bleed — is called cutting. Cutting is a type of self-injury. People may cut themselves on their wrists, arms, legs, or bellies.

Why?

Cutting is a way for people to cope with the pain of strong emotions or upsetting problems. I knew this girl who cut herself and people said she seeked attention; it was her way of crying for help. People are judged badly for inflicting injury upon themselves but its a way to release this intense emotional tension and sometimes it makes you feel like you’re in control.

The urge to cut might be triggered by strong feelings a person cannot express; they often say no one understands them or they don’t fit in. Some people who cut have had a traumatic experience or reinflicting the pain they went through.

What happens to the person

Cutting can become a habit and it is dangerous. The more a person cuts, the deeper the wounds become and the more a person will feel the urge to cut themself. A lot of times the scars are permanent. The wounds can become infected and there is a possibility that you may accidentally hit an artery and possibly bleed to death. Also it does have a painful effect on the people you love such as friends and family.

cool???

For some reason cutting has become “cool”. People show off their scars and proudly cut themselves in front of you.
If someone tells you should cut yourself; walk away. Never let someone influence you into cutting yourself. As I said before it is very dangerous. If someone wants you to cut they’re no good. That person needs a lot of help.

Help?

Tell someone Talk to family, a friend, a teacher or somebody you trust. You will feel better when let it out.

Get to the problem Discover what makes you feel the urge to cut. Getting to the root of the problem is a great step in helping yourself. Try to avoid situations which make you want to cut yourself.

Calm yourself There are healthy ways in which you can express your emotions. Write, paint, scream or go for a walk. Remove all sharp objects from your room (knives, broken glass, razors, anything pointed and sharp). If you still feel the urge, lie down on your bed and close your eyes and relax. Stay this way until the urge goes away. Also cry! Don’t let it build up inside. Go somewhere quiet where no one can disturb you and cry. Its not embarrassing; no one is going to see you. Get help.

Hope you found some of this information useful. Next time you see or hear something about someone cutting themselves, don’t make a face and judge the person. They are going through something that we may not always understand. Be sensitive towards their feelings and try to help them help themselves.
This topic was inspired by a very close friend of mines. You never know if your best friend could be hurting herself.

Jyaaaaaaa…will now return comments and blog hop…
hope you visit me again….
I miss you all

xoxo,

Yesha

  happy birthday!!!

Posted by Yesha - 11/05/08 at 11:05:59 pm

konnichiwa… how are you??? i so miss you all …. how was your weekend…Its my birthday yesterday …We celebrate it over my house and we went night swimming,went bar hopping,went shopping,went also to mall of asia to watch pyro olympics..it rained last Saturday and i thought the pyro will be cancel but they still continue it..It was great…

Thank you to all who greet me and thanks for the gifts and mails…i love you all I really appreciate it so much..

Have you greet your mom already and gave her a flower and a sweet kiss? Happy mothers day to all… To my mom, happy mothers day … いろいろ ありがと ね…..いつも そば に いる から….ありがと ね…あいしてる!!!!

MUST READ:

I was blog hopping this morning to read whats new,I wasn’t able to blog hop this past days because i was so busy celebrating my birthday and you all know that…When i noticed some sites and saw my name on their tagboard saying bad things to the owner like “your blog sucks” and trying hard to write in japanese..Hey, you can’t copy me!!!!Some of you knows my ip address so please don’t believe whoever leaving you this kind of rude messages,because IT IS NOT ME!!!! like what i say” IF SOMEONE AREN’T NICE TO YOU SHE’S JEALOUS AND ENVY YOU….”I would not rant anymore about her because she don’t have a space in my site..I just want to inform all my friends who are in my link exchanges this.. If ever someone is bashing your site and uses other name,check its ip address…

Thats it for now, we will go out again … see yah
Thanks for reading and for your comments again
Gambatte ne…

xoxo,

Yesha

  busy….

Posted by Yesha - 07/05/08 at 06:05:02 pm

minna…konnichiwa!!! how are you? genki datta??? me, i am so busy with a lot of things..busy with my online store. ,busy in shopping ^_^,busy with partying, { its a whole month of celebration} ..busy with some businesses .busy going out with relatives…. and a lot more… but i am not forgetting to visit you all ..

this morning, i was browsing crunchyroll looking for some new series to watch.. do you have any recommendations??

I saw the “romantic princess” teaser..
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I would like to thank also those who gave me and will give gifts,letters,kawaii graphichs .. I am so happy reading your mails,sweet messages. I really really appreciate it … i love all your works. I so love my new and old friends… you are all so important to me. .Sometimes, my hubby get jealous because i’m in front of the pc 24/7… lol He’ll just play dota or watch tv and the like when i’m busy…

Anyway,i’ll be giving away free domains soon…watch out for it
how to win: hmmm, maybe just email me but not now.i will tell when you can start e-mailing me ..More info next time…

I’m into online shopping now… gawd!! I can’t control my self being shopaholic .. I’m looking for dresses and tops..I ordered dessert treats too.. the flavor? cotton candy

{click the photo to see} looks yummy isn’t it?!?!?! and its PINK!!!

Jyaaaaa…mata atode ne…I’m in a hurry ..my hubby is ready now and we will go out for dinner..

luv yah…

xoxo,

Yesha

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